TSS Video Vault

Have you decided it's time to have THE TALK? Acknowledging you would like a divorce is not something you should do without prior preparation. Unsure what to say or do? In this 19-minute video, you'll learn: •What safety concerns you should think about when having the talk. •What to do if it's safe to have the talk. •What to take into consideration when getting prepared for the talk. •The 3 A's for your script. •The importance of saying "the word." •Managing Expectations. After the video, feel free to reach out to us on Facebook or Instagram @thesplitsociety with any questions you may have. As we like to say at the Split Society, YOU GOT THIS BECAUSE WE GOT YOU! You don't have to do divorce alone.

The first thing most people do when they start the divorce process, is they start asking questions about attorneys. Do I need an attorney? How do I find one? Who should I hire? The questions are endless. Tracy gives you the lowdown so you can get your divorce process started the right way and avoid issues that can occur in the client-attorney relationship. In this 44-minute video, you'll learn: •How to assess your needs. •Different ways to work with attorneys. •What attorneys provide and what they don't provide. •What the client-attorney relationship looks like. •Common issues clients have with their attorneys. •What to do if you can't stand your attorney. •What to consider if you want to change attorneys. After the video, feel free to reach out to us on Facebook or Instagram @thesplitsociety with any questions you may have. As we like to say at The Split Society, YOU GOT THIS BECAUSE WE GOT YOU! You don't have to do divorce alone.

Do you have divorce questions? Did you miss your chance to get them answered for FREE by Tracy? We're sorry you missed our last FREE Ask Tracy Anything talk on January 28th, but you can watch it here and hopefully some of the questions will be applicable to you. In this 27-minute video, you'll hear answers to: •"I've been married to 13 years and I can't stop thinking about divorce. How do I know if I'm ready?" (1:38) •"When should I tell my kids?" (9:15) •"My wife served me out of the blue and I don't know what to do." (14:50) •"I started my divorce 6 months ago and this process is moving so slow. What do I do?" (19:00) •"I am so frustrated because my attorney doesn't respond to my emails or calls." (21:16) We hope Tracy's in depth answers will help you on your way. After the video, feel free to reach out to us on Facebook or Instagram @thesplitsociety with any questions you may have. As we like to say a The Split Society, YOU GOT THIS BECAUSE WE GOT YOU! You don't have to do divorce alone.

If you are getting divorced, you need to prepare yourself to work on your parenting plan/custody agreement so you can have the best outcome for the mental health of your children. Thinking through what you want in your parenting plan is important work you have to do in order to minimize the negative effects divorce has on your children. In this 49-minute video, you'll learn: •What a child-centered divorce is. •Parental conflict and how it affects children. •How to prepare for proposal development. •Parenting planning discussion points and pre-work. •The importance of shifting perspective in parenting planning. •Different time-sharing ratios and configurations. •Next steps in continuing with a child-centered divorce process. After the video, feel free to reach out to us on Facebook or Instagram @thesplitsociety with any questions you may have. As we like to say at The Split Society, YOU GOT THIS BECAUSE WE GOT YOU! You don't have to do divorce alone.

In order to get control of your divorce, you need to get control of your emotions and reactions. One of the first ways to do this is to know your hot buttons. And don't forget that even though your marriage is ending, a new beginning is awaiting you just around the corner. It's time to start planning for your future with goals. In this 31-minute video, you'll learn: •What triggers are. •How to identify triggers. •What the trigger process is. •How you are dealing with your triggers. •Common triggers in divorce. •What to do when you've identified your triggers. •Awareness and mindset. •Responding vs. reacting. •Setting goals for a focus-forward future. After the video, feel free to reach out to us on Facebook or Instagram @thesplitsociety with any questions you may have. As we like to say at The Split Society, YOU GOT THIS BECAUSE WE GOT YOU! You don't have to do divorce alone.

Need to know when and how to seek support and guidance so you can go from struggling to succeeding in your divorce? You want to get through the divorce process in the most time-efficient and cost-effective manner not just financially, but emotionally, physically, and spiritually. In this 16-minute video, you'll learn: •What a divorce TEAM is. •Who the most important person on your team is. •Who could be on your team. •What you need to figure out who should be on your team. •What Divorce Team Goals you should think of. After the video, feel free to reach out to us on Facebook or Instagram @thesplitsociety with any questions you may have. As we like to say at The Split Society, YOU GOT THIS BECAUSE WE GOT YOU! You don't have to do divorce alone.

Don't make the mistake of putting your child in the middle of your divorce and increasing their distress level by not knowing how to communicate with your soon-to-be-ex. Children don't need to be impacted negatively by the divorce process if parents know how to communicate with each other. Put your children in the center, not in the middle. In this 45-minute video, you'll learn: •The emotional impact on children of all ages. •Signs your child is struggling if you are not engaging in a healthy co-parenting relationship. •The difference of putting your child in the center, and not in the middle in divorce. •How to start your divorce process off on the right foot. •Effective co-parenting strategies. •Next steps in order to achieve a child-centered divorce. After the video, feel free to reach out to us on Facebook or Instagram @thesplitsociety with any questions you may have. As we like to say at The Split Society, YOU GOT THIS BECAUSE WE GOT YOU! You don't have to do divorce alone.

Ready to learn why hiring an expert or experts may be crucial to the success of your divorce and how to assess who you need for your divorce team? In this 25-minute video, you'll learn: The many different areas in which experts may be beneficial to your divorce team. •How to identify what your needs are. •Steps in establishing expert perspective. •Things you should know when interviewing and hiring experts. •Understanding cost vs. outcome/benefit. After the video, feel free to reach out to us on Facebook or Instagram @thesplitsociety with any questions you may have. As we like to say at The Split Society, YOU GOT THIS BECAUSE WE GOT YOU! You don't have to do divorce alone.